I've always felt a bit irritated after having been complimented on my talent/s. The idea is not entirely irrational given most compliments come from them witnessing my having done something that took thousands of hours of practice to get good at. So, as is often the case, it seems we strive to be appreciated for our active participation in life rather than for that which was given to us. Fate may be inate but great… Great takes a mind state focused on being better than you were yesterday!